Interesting discussion. When I develop feelings of affection it may start sexually, heartfelt, spread to the point where the other person through their presence comforts me, relieves my stress. Sex is less necessary with age as one is used to emotional patterns, less dependent on addictive, repetitive behaviors. Love is not mentioned in the video. Deep felt relationships are much more complicated. A society that remains superficial will get nowhere. I suppose Bonnie Blue was missing this in her marriage and 9-5 job. I was too but turned to yoga and meditation, nutrition, which over time increased the intensity of my relationship to my own body and then my ability to relate to others more deeply. I think our society with desk work at school, university, jobs leaves us barren. Working at a laboring job for 15 years has opened me up to my whole body. I can understand Bonnie's need for physical activity, feeling it confirms her existence, although socially unacceptable. I find that doing strenuous work, yoga as well changes the body. My marriage became acceptable, emotionally growing through yoga. Boring work, stressful paper pushing was helped by meditation. Later at 45 when that was gone I remained fit and found a new start and emotional growth in physical work with working class types, opening up entirely to dealing with lots of stress in different directions. My sexuality has also grown. This is not a course on celibacy.
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