Freitag, 30. September 2022

War Analysis

https://bigserge.substack.com/p/the-war-has-just-begun 

Sounds Plausible. I don't want too much excitement. It seems the sides are ideologically dug in and only a decisive win will do. I live in Western Europe. Euro is sliding, inflation at 10%. An economic shock could be worse than covid at the lockdown phase. Not again!

Kilt Doubles as Outdoor Blanket


 

Egyptian Permaculture


 

Amish Refrigeration


 

Laundry by Hand


 

What if the Rivers Dry Up?


 

7 Healthiest Foods

 




Depopulation Bomb


 

Aspergers Next Stage in Evolution


 

Sonntag, 25. September 2022

Counterrevolution in Iran?

https://www.ndtv.com/world-news/at-least-50-killed-as-anti-hijab-protests-intensify-across-iran-3372893 

I fear a protracted and bloody civil war, paralyzing the country. They know that a western backed govt could be like under Pinochet or the Shah, a neoliberal dictatorship with US backing. Freedom from Saudi type conservatism does not automatically mean freedom from bloc thinking( West vs East). Any scenario is conceivable. Interference with foreign troops as during the Russian Civil War is also possible if it continues for weeks or months with cities and provinces falling to rebels. Ukraine conflict could be overshadowed, ignored by the West. Chinese and Indians, Gulf Arabs and Israelis could also get involved. A simmering powder keg for decades perhaps now exploding. I see how in such an astrological period within the first couple of years after the great conjunctions every twenty years major eventts occur that alter history. Maybe if instability were palpable China would use this as an opportunity to take Taiwan "unnoticed". 

Importance of Sketchbooks, How to Use


 

Urban Sketching Tips


 

The Drawing Exercise that Changed My Life


 

Modern Movies Suck As They Have a Bad Message


 

Healers - Beginning of an Old Soul Revolution


 

Silence is Power


 

House of a Thousand Knots


 

London in 500 AD


 

Freitag, 23. September 2022

Neural Synchronization Predicts Partnership Happiness More than Personality

https://neurosciencenews.com/marriage-brain-synch-21488/ 

I think the first point in the article was to ask whethher opposites attract or do similarities make life easier? Obviously opposites are complementary, strong vs gentle, etc and similarities are in the comfort zone. But anyone can grow apart no matter how similar and very difficult partners can learn respect. The key is the brain waves it seems. These are connected by lots of quality time and genuine effort on both sides. As an analogy from politics there is a generational theory that big conflicts erupt every 4 generations as people become separated from other groups, misunderstand others due to a lack of intense effort to understand the other. So conflict and its resolution forms a basis of understanding. We should not accept the easy path but use conflict constructively. Marriage battles, like those on the field can end in a peaceful resolution.Then we see eye to eye, but with lots of broken plates and bruised egos. We understand ourselves best by comparison with others. Lots of honest contacts keep us honest to ourselves, flexible. 

Most Famous Painters Today


 

Transformations of Europe


 

Neuromarketing



 

Chinese Village that Paints 1000s of Fake Masterpieces Annually


 

Kybalion - Hermetics Study Guide


 

Roman Military Training


 

Earth 300,000 Years Ago


 

100 Years of Ulysses


 

Bjork Interview

https://pitchfork.com/features/cover-story/bjork-interview/ 

Dienstag, 20. September 2022

Mars Conjunct North Node Transit

 my horoscope this week or two

https://advanced-astrology.com/mars-conjunctnorth-node-synastry/#:~:text=The%20Mars%20conjunct%20north%20node%20transit%20can%20be%20a%20period,traits%20of%20Mars%20more%20strongly.

What to expect during transiting Mars conjunct your natal north node?

This is a relatively frequent transit, appearing every two years. During Mars conjunct north node transit, you have a clear sense of purpose, and you find the strength in yourself to pursue it. 

The Mars conjunct north node transit can be a period when you meet a person who strongly embodies the traits of Mars. They have a strong will, behave in an assertive and direct way, and they might even be belligerent. Alternatively, it can also happen that you display the traits of Mars more strongly.

Physical exercise can be a healthy way to channelize the energy of Mars. During Mars conjunct north node transit, you often have increased energy levels, but you also become irritated or frustrated more easily. Watch out for being impatient. Taking up a martial art or exercising regularly can be a great way to make the most out of the Mars conjunct north node transit.

Venus Conjunct Mars Transit/ venus transit opposite sun

My horoscope transit today with venus

Venus Conjunct Mars Transit

Venus conjunct Mars transit increases your desire for intimate relations. Driven by an intense need for sexual satisfaction, you can become very direct in your search for a mating partner. This primal urge to reproduce is not so raw and aggressive as to make others feel uncomfortable.

Your more tender and sensual side dominates, increasing your chance of finding romance at this time. This complements your raw passion and sex appeal, making you highly attractive to your partner or potential partners. Increased charisma and popularity make socializing more enjoyable and exciting. This is an ideal time for both romance and making new friends.

You will also find satisfaction in creative activities. This is a good time to start works of art, especially those combining the physical and emotional such as dance or sculpture. Even routine work should be more enjoyable now as you have the drive and creative urge to make things look or work better. This is also an excellent time to host a party or celebration.

venus transit opposite sun

https://astrolibrary.org/transits/venus-sun/

 When transiting Venus is in opposition to your natal Sun, you want to enjoy life and your relationships, and you don’t feel like working, but you should avoid self-indulgence and laziness. Lack of emotional sensitivity today can lead to emotional difficulties with those closest to you. Try to understand others’ feelings before you inject your own large ego into the situation. On the other hand, you may also be drawn by your desire to share without properly discerning with whom.

Through your relationships with others, you have the opportunity to learn something valuable about yourself. Use these opportunities to grow. After a few uncomfortable situations, you might end up having a good time during this period. It can be very favorable for your intimate relationships if you’re willing to give in and not always want to be right, or at least to learn to please others.

This is a good time to express your feelings to someone you care about, as well as express yourself artistically. People will not resist you if you project yourself outward now because you are more pleasant or attractive. You should not drink excessively or eat too much, since the well-being you may feel now may turn into problems in the future.

Cannabis for All


 

The Seed Whisperer


 

Medieval DIY


 

Stanley Kubrick's "The Shining"


 

16th Century Indian Sari Weaving Today


 

Making Iron from Creek Sand


 

Arctic Sytem Collapse?


 

Bison to Transform UK


 

Sonntag, 18. September 2022

Meditation Experiences, Remembering Mother

 18th September is my mother's birthday, rest her soul, 8 years now or 7 I think. Days ending in 8 I find auspicious for spiritual practice. Having a couple weeks off from the job and going nowhere I am quite relaxed. I meditate fr 30 minutes after waking. Today was an interesting experience for chakra balancing as I felt them all about equally instead of say my heart chakra being very strong. as usual where I cross my arms over my chest. It is good to have balance. Sadness or joy is usually perceived as more or less energy somewhere, like in the heart, so it is good to feel everywhere about the same, limiting the ups and downs of life, increasing resilience. Like in relationship ups and downs which depend on personality profiles of individuals. Two people fit together like pieces of a puzzle. If you change your personality or get more flexible then you can expand your range within the relationship so that it is much better or generally expand ranges of friendships, relationships. So spiritual practice is like sport, but internal. To try to maintain some state, say a good mood, like in a certain state of meditation, the perfect sexual high, a concert high with tears in your eyes, that perfect stillness on the lakeside at sunset is futile. Why do we enjoy weekends or vacation? Because they are the exception. Suffering, grudgework is the rule. Permanent happiness is unsatisfactory. It is the proportion that counts like in marriage. So much % argument contra so much % agreeableness or divorce follows. 

As regards downs in spiritual practice and moods, I presume that is the prep work for a breakthrough to a higher plateau of happiness. No pain, no gain. Maybe this runs for many lives till we figure it all out. We get stuck in certain situations we thought would be desirable but after a while become dull. Death, rebirth, new career, sex life. I have been thinking spirituality gets us past some of that simple materialism so typical in the modern times. The industrial revolution ran parallel to the 20 year Saturn/Jupiter cycle always in earth signs 200 years long. We were focused on sciences, finances, concrete results. Since 2 years that has switched to air signs. The focus of society is changing from wealth, facts, industry to humanity, society.  We must get along, not just accumulate. America had its rise in these last two centuries, a virgin continent of resources to exploit. Now this system is sputtering. Technological progress, linear, is limited.  So we focus on inner life. Back to basics as in Asia. Thousands of years of navel gazing a Westerner would say. But every empire built huge monuments, had great conquests and perished in its turn. Each person has the same in succesive lives. One talks of a spiral evolution. Perhaps it is so. 

Australian Shepherd Dog


 

Shakespeare's Story



 

Tolkien's Silmarillion


 

The Invention of Trousers


 

Buddhist Cosmic Laws


 

Viking Hairstyle


 

Orcas


 

Oldest Pyramids Disguised as Mountains


 

Saturn Return - When, How Long, Effects

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/life/a28495676/saturn-return/ 

End of twenties party over!

Freitag, 16. September 2022

Symbolism Of Leather

 http://www.belmun.com/leather/symbolism-of-leather.htm

There is a reason why a leather chair, sofa or even a wallet feels more rich and comfortable than that of something made of cloth, wood or steel. This is because leather has always been a subtle symbol of elegance, style and power. Throughout history, leather was used to make protective gear like armour and boots. The ancient Romans used leather to fortify their armour. Leather straps and chest pieces were used to ward off the swords of enemies due to the inherent strength and durability of leather. In the time of the old West, leather was used to make saddles, chaps and boots. Again, the strength and durability of the leather was used to protect its wearer, this time from the repeated rubbing of horse riding and the deadly bites of venomous snakes.

To this day, leather is still a symbol of power and protection. When we surround ourselves with leather accessories and accents, we get the look and feel of style and elegance as well as comfort. This is something which cannot be achieved by most other materials. Leather is also an especially unique material since every hide is subtly different and therefore provides a different look for every article that is made. In this way you are assured that your home styling accents are unique.

Fashion Psychology: What Your Choice in Clothes Say About You

https://www.scienceofpeople.com/fashion-psychology/ 

Dali's 'Persistence of Memory' Explained


 

Bad Venice Geography


 

Normal Scary Life in Wild West



 

Lawrence of Arabia


 

Australia Docu


 

Story of Electricity


 

Tasmania


 

Trolls of Middle Earth


 

Dienstag, 13. September 2022

Sonntag, 11. September 2022

Autumnal Collapse

https://alt-market.us/europe-is-facing-energy-disaster-and-its-going-to-bleed-over-into-the-us/ 

I guess a few square miles of territory lost or won by whomever ain't in the least important so why the big deal about it? In mid 2000s decade I learned lots about Peak Oil and online we discussed the end of civilization, alt energy, gardening. Now it seems politics is making it come hard and fast and not gradual with batteries slowing decline till 2100 when we would have gotten used to a 19th century lifestyle. I recall reading about british industrial revolution uprooting the masses to work in the factories and live in slum squalor. We got used to a high energy lifestyle with hi-tech gadgets. What happens when you cuddle together in the dark in one room, eat raw foods of what is available, job is gone as it needs lots of energy too? Our whole lifestyle, infrastructure is based on cheap hydrocarbon energy sources. Cars, cooking, heating, lights. It reminds me of 1973 Arab oil embargo. Israel fought a war and USA, America supported it. The result was an oil embargo. This is similar, but in Europe. We can all moralize but Realpolitik is a different animal. USA has gone into lots of conflicts without being called empire of darkness for bombing out whole countries, much less suffering sanctions or any consequences at all. The Western Europeans had colonies and did what they wanted for a long time. This system fell apart as Central Europeans, landlocked as they were wanted more, but by taking it locally. Same colonial principle. This destroyed colonial system. Now Russian, Chinese pushback against the current system will weaken it to the extent that the postwar Western dominated global economic and military order, based on cheap energy availability apparently, breaks down, leaving suppliers to call the tune. Like if Germany can't get energy it will revert backwards fast and the population will beg to emigrate to where comfortable jobs are available. Millions could move to Russia to set up car factories, near oil fields or gas fields and be good citizens. Saudi Arabia has a huge underclass from the subcontinent of India and Pakistan. Texas could get the message and declare independence, close its borders and regulate oil prices in America.

 https://www.ecosophia.net/before-winter-comes/ some sage advice in preparation here.

I myself had been in a panic in 2005 over the Peak Oil problem but let it slide. Now that we might live a reduced lifestyle maybe soon without much energy, maybe losing internet and friends online for example would force some adjustment. Maybe some will feel more lonely or start reading more or get out to social, sports clubs, curches or similar even if they don't really believe or care but just to be near people, especially if work disappears. Many earn their living online and this could disappear. Perhaps traditional occupations will beckon in stores, restaurants, etc. Life, as we have seen through covid, can change significantly and rapidly. Do not be surprised when your life' s dreams are suddenly dashed forever and you must start from scratch as a nobody. After the great financial crisis at least I had my health. Keep things in perspective. Move back in with family or friends. God is with us always.

How Far Does Evolution Go?


 

A Hunting Accident - Chekhov - Rusfilm


 

Soviet Women During WWII


 

Jordan Peterson on the Queen's Death


 

How Hungary Crushed the Mongols


 

Extreme Loneliness, Lack of Touch & Companionship


 

Whale Evolution


 

Alternate Donosaur Extinction Impact Crater Found



 

Freitag, 9. September 2022

Emotional Convergence Hypothesis

https://www.cambridge.org/core/books/social-life-of-emotions/emotional-convergence-hypothesis/95D90EBFFD2608F04F6AC9D3DF4F6E27 

9 Reasons Couples Look Alike

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-modern-heart/202112/9-reasons-why-many-couples-look-alike

Get Out of Survival Mode


 

Low Bun Hairstyles


 

Becoming a Crazy Fool After Enlightenment


 

Why Taiwan is Important


 

Patanjali


 

Japanese Atlantis


 

Ice Fishing


 

UK Monarch Dies Aged 96 after Record Reign of 70 Years, Succeeded by Aged Son


 

Donnerstag, 8. September 2022

I'm OK You're OK

https://www.blinkist.com/en/books/im-ok-youre-ok-en Not on topic but I get moody, complain. If we had all we wanted it is unlikely our general moods would change. People are simply that way due to personality and learn to live with it.

Flashdance - Maniac


 

Buddha and Mindfulness


 

Tipping Points


 

Social Media Dangers


 

What if the Glaciers Melted?


 

Jamestown Massacre 1622


 

On Lying


 

Viking Religion


 

Mittwoch, 7. September 2022

Ram Dass - When We Look into the Eyes of Another Person


 

How to Stay Motivated - The Locus Rule


 

22 Books to Make You Love Life


 

Integrate Shadow Self Jordan Peterson and Robert Greene


I think I need to watch this!
 

12 Life Changing Habits


 

Cigarettes affects


 

Farmer's Markets Lies Exposed


 

Bermuda Triangle


 

Dienstag, 6. September 2022

Depersonalization

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Depersonalization-derealization_disorder#:~:text=Depersonalization%20is%20described%20as%20feeling,over%20their%20thoughts%20or%20actions. 

I am guessing at Uranus venus conjunctions because Uranus is very alien and venus is our feelings. I recently got such feelings, I suspect osmotically as I absorb other' s experiences. This helps in psychological diagnoses but I should avoid trying to treat madmen, although we all have a bit of madness. 

It can happen with uranus conjunct venus that we attract weird partners far away. We get absorbed in our feelings but as they can' t be grounded( physical affection) due to the sheer impossibility of the situation that we depersonalize, feel alien. In many cases such individuals can retire into nature, swims, have pets, read fantasy books. Eventually they may overcome this behavioral pattern by grounding themselves in a physical partnership. However I suspect that the depersonalization to hypersexualization pendulum will exist regardless as part of the personality. It is just a given. The children of such individuals would probably later analyze the parent, remarking on odd swings in character, loving then distant.

I hope in such analysis the partner is not getting too much of me, which then reflects in their moods and I mistake it for them. Maybe the relationship between people is a whole problem in itself and each two pairings brings different characteristics to the fore. For example as I have venus conjunct saturn in horoscope which means a fear of intimacy and uranus oposite venus meaning I suspect rejection where actually affection is desired, that in general in aforementioned relationship my reserve and fearfulness of intimacy could easily trigger withdrawal and depersonalization in the partner. A more natural easy going partner with less sexual neurosis might be desirable than myself in this case. Of course with conscious work anything is possible...

Saturn transit uranus natal

https://astrologyking.com/saturn-conjunct-uranus/ 

5G Problems


 

Can Brain Explain Consciousness?


 

How Capitalism Robs the Developing World


 

How Amazon Changed Whole Foods


 

Who Owns Water?


 

Dostoyevsky on Suffering


 

Psychopath's Brain


 

Why is Pork Forbidden?


 

Sonntag, 4. September 2022

The Nature of Ayahuasca Documentary


 

Mining Sulfur from an Active Volcano


 

Dying for Everest


 

The Wisdom of Not Knowing


 

A Cloud Never Dies biography Zen Master


 

Gwyneth Paltrow's California Home


 

After Rome - The War for Britain


 

Yin Yang Explained

 


Santana- Black Magic Woman - 8/18/1970


 

Freitag, 2. September 2022

Ephesians 6, Verse 12

 Eph. 6[12] For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness 

END QUOTE

I dreamed we were attempting to force an evil force to awaken so that we could drive it away with our love. I was a bit afraid. Greene's Text sounds quite Machiavellian. Sex and desire outside of legitimacy and with impure ends seems a very bad matter.

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

 Like any art form it takes practices and inborn talent.

https://www.nateliason.com/notes/art-seduction-robert-greene

High-Level Thoughts

Jeez I took a lot of notes on this one. It’s much more than about sexual seduction, it’s about how to seduce anyone, politically, socially, and yes, sexually. Extremely interesting analogs from history, highly recommend it.

Summary Notes

“Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to become a master at the game. All that is required is that you look at the world differently, through the eyes of a seducer.”

“What will seduce a person is the effort we expend on their behalf, showing how much we care, how much they are worth.”

“Seducers take pleasure in performing and are not weighed down by their identity, or by some need to be themselves, or to be natural.”

“Every seduction has two elements that you must analyze and understand: first, yourself and what is seductive about you; and second, your target and the actions that will penetrate their defenses and create surrender.”

The Seductive Character

Successful seduction starts with who you are and the type of seductive energy you express. It requires creating yourself, or refining yourself, in one of the seducer categories.

  • Sirens have an abundance of sexual energy and know how to use it.
  • They lure in their targets, like the sirens of Odysseus, through their image and teases. Crafting the perfect seductive pose for their target.
  • Rakes insatiably adore the opposite sex, and their desire is infectious.
  • Unlike the normal, cautious male, the Rake is delightfully unrestrained, a slave to his love of women. There is the added lure of his reputation: so many women have succumbed to him, there has to be a reason.
  • Remember: it is the form that matters, not the content. The less your targets focus on what you say, and the more on how it makes them feel, the more seductive your effect. Give your words a lofty, spiritual, literary flavor the better to insinuate desire in your unwitting victims.
  • To play the Rake, the most obvious requirement is the ability to let yourself go, to draw a woman into the kind of purely sensual moment in which past and future lose meaning. You must be able to abandon yourself to the moment.
  • If no obstacles face you, you must create them. Seduction requires obstacle.
  • Ideal Lovers have an aesthetic sensibility that they apply to romance.
  • Casanova was perhaps the most successful seducer in history; few women could resist him. His method was simple: on meeting a woman, he would study her, go along with her moods, find out what was missing in her life, and provide it. He made himself the Ideal Lover.
  • But appeal to their better selves, to a higher standard of beauty, and they will hardly notice that they have been seduced. Make them feel elevated, lofty, spiritual, and your power over them will be limitless.
  • Talleyrand simply held up a mirror to Napoleon and let him glimpse that possibility. People are always vulnerable to insinuations like this, which stroke their vanity almost everyone’s weak spot. Hint at something for them to aspire to, reveal your faith in some untapped potential you see in them, and you will soon have them eating out of your hand.
  • Dandies like to play with their image, creating a striking and androgynous allure.
  • Most of us feel trapped within the limited roles that the world expects us to play. We are instantly attracted to those who are more fluid, more ambiguous, than we are— those who create their own persona. Dandies excite us because they cannot be categorized, and hint at a freedom we want for ourselves.
  • Dandies seduce socially as well as sexually; groups form around them, their style is wildly imitated, an entire court or crowd will fall in love with them. In adapting the Dandy character for your own purposes, remember that the Dandy is by nature a rare and beautiful flower. Be different in ways that are both striking and aesthetic, never vulgar; poke fun at current trends and styles, go in a novel direction, and be supremely uninterested in what anyone else is doing. Most people are insecure; they will wonder what you are up to, and slowly they will come to admire and imitate you, because you express yourself with total confidence.
  • Naturals are spontaneous and open.
  • Coquettes are self-sufficient, with a fascinating cool at their core.
  • Coquettes seem totally self-sufficient: they do not need you, they seem to say, and their narcissism proves devilishly attractive.
  • People are inherently perverse. An easy conquest has a lower value than a difficult one; we are only really excited by what is denied us, by what we cannot possess in full. Your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away, to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.
  • To understand the peculiar power of the Coquette, you must first understand a critical property of love and desire: the more obviously you pursue a person, the more likely you are to chase them away.
  • Self-esteem is critical in seduction. (Your attitude toward yourself is read by the other person in subtle and unconscious ways.) Low self-esteem repels, confidence and self-sufficiency attract. The less you seem to need other people, the more likely others will be drawn to you.
  • Charmers want and know how to please— they are social creatures.
  • Charmers do not argue or fight, complain, or pester— what could be more seductive?
  • First, they don’t talk much about themselves, which heightens their mystery and disguises their limitations. Second, they seem to be interested in us, and their interest is so delightfully focused that we relax and open up to them. Finally Charmers are pleasant to be around. They have none of most people’s ugly qualities— nagging, complaining, self-assertion.
  • Charismatics have an unusual confidence in themselves.
  • Learn to create the charismatic illusion by radiating intensity while remaining detached.
  • Creating the air of charisma:
  • Purpose. If people believe you have a plan, that you know where you are going, they will follow you instinctively The direction does not matter: pick a cause, an ideal, a vision and show that you will not sway from your goal.Mystery. Mystery lies at charisma’s heart, but it is a particular kind of mystery— a mystery expressed by contradiction, by having conflicting traits.Saintliness. Most of us must compromise constantly to survive; saints do not. They must live out their ideals without caring about the consequences. The saintly effect bestows charisma.Eloquence. A Charismatic relies on the power of words.Theatricality. A Charismatic is larger than life, has extra presence.Uninhibitedness. Most people are repressed, and have little access to their unconscious— a problem that creates opportunities for the Charismatic, who can become a kind of screen on which others project their secret fantasies and longings.Fervency. You need to believe in something, and to believe in it strongly enough for it to animate all your gestures and make your eyes light up.Vulnerability. Charismatics display a need for love and affection.Adventurousness. Charismatics are unconventional.Magnetism. If any physical attribute is crucial in seduction, it is the eyes. They reveal excitement, tension, detachment, without a word being spoken.
  • People do not want to hear that your power comes from years of effort or discipline. They prefer to think that it comes from your personality, your character, something you were born with.
  • Stars are ethereal and envelop themselves in mystery.
  • People are hopelessly susceptible to myth, so make yourself the hero of a great drama. And keep your distance— let people identify with you without being able to touch you. They can only watch and dream.
  • First, you must have such a large presence that you can fill your target’s mind the way a close-up fills the screen.
  • Second, cultivate a blank, mysterious face, the center that radiates Starness.
  • The Anti-Seducer: those who repel
  • Anti-Seducers come in many shapes and kinds, but almost all of them share a single attribute, the source of their repellence: insecurity.
  • It is critical to recognize anti-seductive qualities not only in others but also in ourselves. Almost all of us have one or two of the Anti-Seducer’s qualities latent in our character, and to the extent that we can consciously root them out, we become more seductive.
  • The Brute: Who has no patience, who wants to skip the seduction, who offends with egotism.
  • The Suffocator: Those who cling incessantly to you, love you before you know who they are, or who make themselves a doormat to you in their obsession.
  • The Moralizer: Who wants you to bend to their standard.
  • The Tightwad: Cheapness displays more insecurity beyond money.
  • The Bumbler: The awkward speaker, who makes others feel awkward too.
  • The Windbag: Who won’t shut up.
  • The Reactor: Who is terrified to have their ego damaged.
  • The Vulgarian: Who ignores the rules of the game, presents a garrish image, does not play the game and yet expects to win.
  • It is rather because wordless communication (through clothes, gestures, actions) is the most pleasurable, exciting, and seductive form of language.

The 18 Types of Seducer Victims

Never try to seduce your own type.

People are constantly giving out signals of what they lack, you have to tune in to these signals and interpret their type based on them.

  1. The Reformed Rake or Siren: They desperately long to escape whatever corralled them in, what is preventing them from being their normal freely sexual self.
  2. The Disappointed Dreamer: They long for adventure, but are stuck in a boring lifestyle.
  3. The Pampered Royal: The long to be swept off their feet by a prince charming and let them live out their fantasy of being pampered and treated like royalty.
  4. The New Prude: excessively concerned with their outward appearance, underneath they want to release, but they fear judgement. They must feel like they’re sharing some secret with you…
  5. The Crushed Star: No longer the center of attention, they long to have that sense of being adored back.
  6. The Novive: They want to at least feel that you’re somewhat “young” too, but are also excited by the possibility of being introduced to a new, darker world…
  7. The Conquerer: You must give them an obstacle to overcome, a mission, a goal.
  8. The Exotic Fetishist: They want novelty, new experiences, things on the edge, you must position yourself as something exotic.
  9. The Drama Queen: They long for drama in their lives, so you’ll need to help create it in order to keep them rapt.
  10. The Professor: They analyze and think deeply about everything, but long to be overwhelmed by a more free spirit who can help them release their mental barrier.
  11. The Beauty: Used to being appreciated, you must focus on the less complimented features like her intellect or wit.
  12. The Aging Baby: Still immature and wanting a supportive parent, you must enable their childish desires while still occasionally reeling them in.
  13. The Rescuer: They long to feel like they’re saving someone from themselves, you must make them feel that they can “save” you from something and they 
  14. will become obsessed. Let her be your maternal protector.
  15. The Roué: Experienced in life, they desire to educate someone more naive.
  16. The Idol Worshipper: You must become their object of worship that provides the meaning in life that they seek.
  17. The Sensualist: Driven by their senses, you must overwhelm their site, smell, and touch, to fully draw them in.
  18. The Lonely Leader: Act as their equal or superior, the kind of relationship they rarely have.
  19. The Floating Gender: Float with them.
  20. Seduction Phase 1: Separation, Stiring Interest and Desire

    1. Choosing the right victim
    2. The right victims are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic.
    3. To leave people who are inaccessible to you alone is a wise path; you cannot seduce everyone.
    4. Never rush into the waiting arms of the first person who seems to like you. That is not seduction but insecurity.
    5. People who are outwardly distant or shy are often better targets than extroverts. They are dying to be drawn out, and still waters run deep.
    6. On the other hand, you should generally avoid people who are preoccupied with business or work— seduction demands attention, and busy people have too little space in their minds for you to occupy.
    7. Creating a False Sense of Security, Approach Indirectly
    8. Once you have chosen the right victim, you must get his or her attention and stir desire. To move from friendship to love can win success without calling attention to itself as a maneuver.
    9. First, your friendly conversations with your targets will bring you valuable information about their characters, their tastes, their weaknesses, the childhood yearnings that govern their adult behavior.
    10. Second, by spending time with your targets you can make them comfortable with you.
    11. Then, surprise their expectations with an errant touch or suggestion, make them now interested.
    12. There is nothing more effective in seduction than making the seduced think that they are the ones doing the seducing.
    13. The first move to master is simple: once you have chosen the right person, you must make the target come to you.
    14. Too much attention early on will actually just suggest insecurity, and raise doubts as to your motives. Worst of all, it gives your targets no room for imagination. Take a step back; let the thoughts you are provoking come to them as if they were their own.
    15. In all arenas of life, you should never give the impression that you are angling for something— that will raise a resistance that you will never lower. Learn to approach people from the side.
    16. Send Mixed Signals
    17. What is obvious and striking may attract their attention at first, but that attention is often short-lived; in the long run, ambiguity is much more potent. Most of us are much too obvious —instead, be hard to figure out.
    18. To deepen their interest, you must hint at a complexity that cannot be grasped in a week or two.
    19. If you have a sweet face and an innocent air, let out hints of something dark, even vaguely cruel in your character.
    20. Appear to Be an Object of Desire: Create Triangles
    21. You see a man alone, whom nobody talks to for any length of time, and who is wandering around without company; isn’t there a kind of self-fulfilling isolation about him? Why is he alone, why is he avoided? There has to be a reason.
    22. When people’s vanity is at risk, you can make them do whatever you want. According to Stendhal, if there is a woman you are interested in, pay attention to her sister. That will stir a triangular desire.
    23. Men who believe that a rakish reputation will make women fear or distrust them, and should be played down, are quite wrong. On the contrary, it makes them more attractive.
    24. Create a need, stir anxiety and discontent
    25. People are always susceptible to being seduced, because in fact everyone lacks a sense of completeness, feels something missing deep inside. Bring their doubts and anxieties to the surface and they can be led and lured to follow you.
    26. Make people anxious about the future, make them depressed, make them question their identity, make them sense the boredom that gnaws at their life. The ground is prepared. The seeds of seduction can be sown.
    27. Master the Art of Insinutation
    28. There is no known defense, however, against insinuation— the art of planting ideas in people’s minds by dropping elusive hints that take root days later, even appearing to them as their own idea. Make everything suggestive.
    29. Enter Their Spirit
    30. Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt yourself to their moods. In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.
    31. Create Temptation
    32. As the serpent tempted Eve with the promise of forbidden knowledge, you must awaken a desire in your targets that they cannot control. Find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint that you can lead them toward it.
    33. Find that childhood insecurity, that lack in their life, and you hold the key to tempting them. Their weakness may be greed, vanity, boredom, some deeply repressed desire, a hunger for forbidden fruit. They signal it in little details that elude their conscious control: their style of clothing, an offhand comment.

    Phase 2: Lead Astray — Creating Pleasure and Confusion

    1. Keep Them In Suspense, what comes next?
    2. Behave in a way that leaves them wondering, What are you up to? Doing something they do not expect from you will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity— they will not be able to foresee what comes next.
    3. There are all kinds of calculated surprises you can spring on your victims— sending a letter from out of the blue, showing up unexpectedly, taking them to a place they have never been. But best of all are surprises that reveal something new about your character.
    4. Reliability is fine for drawing people in, but stay reliable and you stay a bore. Dogs are reliable, a seducer is not.
    5. Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion
    6. Inflame people’s emotions with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities, envelop them in fantasies, sweet words, and promises, and not only will they listen to you, they will lose their Will to resist you.
    7. A woman was beautiful, yet lacked confidence in her own wit and intelligence? He made sure to say that he was bewitched not by her beauty but by her mind.
    8. Pay Attention to Detail
    9. Poeticize Your Presence
    10. You can be dangerous, naughty, even somewhat vulgar, depending on the tastes of your victim. But never be ordinary or limited. In poetry (as opposed to reality), anything is possible.
    11. The only thing that cannot be idealized is mediocrity, but there is nothing seductive about mediocrity. There is no possible way to seduce without creating some kind of fantasy and poeticization.
    12. Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability
    13. The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger. If you seem to be weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control yourself, you will make your actions look more natural, less calculated.
    14. Remember: what is natural to your character is inherently seductive. A person’s vulnerability, what they seem to be unable to control, is often what is most seductive about them.
    15. A woman, for instance, may be attracted by a man’s strength and self-confidence, but too much of it can create fear, seeming unnatural, even ugly.
    16. Confuse Desire and Reality— The Perfect Illusion
    17. Your task as a seducer is to bring some flesh and blood into someone’s fantasy life by embodying a fantasy figure, or creating a scenario resembling that person’s dreams.
    18. Isolate the Victim
    19. Separate them from their environment physically, emotionally, and mentally, so they can become further engrossed with you.

    Phase 3: The Precipice, deepening the effect through extreme measures

    1. Prove Yourself
    2. Do not worry about looking foolish or making a mistake— any kind of deed that is self-sacrificing and for your targets’ sake will so overwhelm their emotions, they won’t notice anything else.
    3. Cleverly lead your victim into a crisis, a moment of danger, or indirectly put them in an uncomfortable position, and you can play the rescuer, the gallant knight.
    4. Effect a Regression
    5. Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo
    6. Making your targets feel that you are leading them past either kind of limit is immensely seductive. People yearn to explore their dark side.
    7. But we are strange animals: the moment any kind of limit is imposed, physically or psychologically, we are instantly curious. A part of us wants to go beyond that limit, to explore what is forbidden.
    8. The most blatant way to do this is to engage in behavior that gives you a dark and forbidden aura. Theoretically you are someone to avoid; in fact you are too seductive to resist.
    9. Use Spiritual Lures
    10. Everyone has doubts and insecurities —about their body, their self-worth, their sexuality. If your seduction appeals exclusively to the physical, you will stir up these doubts and make your targets self-conscious. Instead, lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on something sublime and spiritual: a religious experience, a lofty work of art, the occult.
    11. Mix Pleasure with Pain
    12. Lure them in with focused attention, then change direction, appearing suddenly uninterested. Make them feel guilty and insecure. Even instigate a breakup, subjecting them to an emptiness and pain that will give you room to maneuver
    13. Your seduction should never follow a simple course upward toward pleasure and harmony. The climax will come too soon, and the pleasure will be weak. What makes us intensely appreciate something is previous suffering.
    14. Without tension, without anxiety and suspense, there can be no feeling of release, of true pleasure and joy. It is your task to create that tension in the target, to stimulate feelings of anxiety, to lead them to and fro, so that the culmination of the seduction has real weight and intensity. So rid yourself of your nasty habit of avoiding conflict, which is in any case unnatural. You are most often nice not out of your own inner goodness but out of fear of displeasing, out of insecurity.

    Phase 4: Move in for the kill

    1. Give Them Space to Fall— The Pursuer Is Pursued
    2. Stir the pot by seeming interested in someone else. Make none of this explicit; let them only sense it and their imagination will do the rest, creating the doubt you desire.
    3. Understand: a person’s willpower is directly linked to their libido, their erotic desire. When your victims are passively waiting for you, their erotic level is low. When they turn pursuer, getting involved in the process, brimming with tension and anxiety, the temperature is raised.
    4. Use Physical Lures
    5. While your cool, nonchalant air is calming their minds and lowering their inhibitions, your glances, voice, and bearing— oozing sex and desire— are getting under their skin, agitating their senses and raising their temperature.
    6. Second, be alert to the signs of physical excitation. Blushing, trembling 
    7. of the voice, tears, unusually forceful laughter, relaxing movements of the body (any kind of involuntary mirroring, their gestures imitating yours), a revealing slip of the tongue— these are signs that the victim is slipping into the moment and pressure is to be applied.
    8. Master the Art of the Bold Move
    9. One person must go on the offensive, and it is you.
    10. Beware the Aftereffects
    11. Stir the pot, even if that means a return to inflicting pain and pulling back. Never rely on your physical charms; even beauty loses its appeal with repeated exposure. Only strategy and effort will fight off inertia
    12. Maintain your mystery and lightness
    13. Avoid the slow burnout, Once you feel disenchanted and know it is over, end it quickly, without apology. Once you are truly disenchanted, there is no going back, so don’t hang on out of false pity. It is more compassionate to make a clean break. If that seems inappropriate or too ugly, then deliberately disenchant the victim with anti-seductive behavior.