Resonance

Sometimes, as in the last poem s epressed, one resonates at a deeper level with another person, in friendship or in love. This generally does not happen immediately but bit by bit as if by accident over many months of coincidental meetings as we brush aginst each other, have eye contact, hear each other's voices, resonance builds. Eventually we notice deeper attraction and sympathy to one of many people out of all of the others with whom we have been associating. We 'click' with this person, deeper friendship bonds are formed which become meaningful. These bonds can even overshadow others we thought meaningful, making them seem insignificant, empty in comparison, as we get swept away by waves of passion for our new affection. In this way we grow emotionally. Every attachment grows our apparatus into a higher level of inner synchroncity with itself. We become more fine tuned to an inner potential, nearer to God, divinity. The last couple of months has been quite intense for me in the above sense. As 5 years ago when this sort of synchronous development in the spiritual /romantic sense first became apparent to me and took me by storm in a rush, also this time the speed and intensity is enormous, difficult, emotionally and physically. In between times it was often cautios and quiet. The personalities with whom one is dealing determines the pace. One 'lover' is slow, cautious, another scrapes your back with her fingernails while making love, so to speak. I mean the latter allegorically as all of this remains for me on  platonic, energetic resonance level. I suppose that this all depends on the individual horoscope and synastry between the two. Emotional attachment as crying at songs is one thing all can relate to. Another more energy specific one sees in my lat post, electric. Many see this. However if one does yoga many years it can get a bit more extreme. Chakras grow, can be felt continuously resonating between the partners. This stabilizes, spreads, deepens. Sleep was one or two hours less last several weeks. One starts by copying movements subconsciously of the other, thought patterns. I was getting for example due to head chakra energy, also pain in teeth which made drinking, eating a bit painful. Then slight heart pain before sleep a couple times. And becoming deeply philosophical, not just ecstatic as at beginning. Central chakras, in effect, initially take up lots of energy. This is after a while too much, then it dissipates and is taken up by surrounding tissue, muscles, reducing the stress. I woke this morning feeling strong energy flow in the joint, muscles of my jaw. This allows deeper flow between several head throat chakras. Essentially the resonance increases energy which then creates music like with tuning forks. We dance, move, feel like our partner, thei it stabilizes and changes the substance energetically at the level of muscles, sinews, tendons, cells. At first I had imagined a productive partnership in this sense would strengthen one chakra, then another, cyclically, as one or the other became 'overcharged'. Of course it has to seep into the body tissue, the true substance as well, making us more able to resonate deeply. If both are up to it such a  shiva/shakti dance may conytinue indefinitely between bliss and pain and flowing between this and that chakra and from there into surrounding muscles like cheeks, feet, hips. Yin/yang opposition is a powerful force for growth. Purposeful application of deep feelings of love without losing control is a matter of sensitivity and discipline. Love is a many and splendid thing I blieve the poet once said. Indeed in more ways than one.